Communication Conundrum

This is not about manners, or being a good host or earning your place at the table. This is about your image. I repeatedly remind readers that you are only 50 percent correct in knowing your own image.The setting: dinner for six, three men/women who work together and three wives/partners who don't. You know which fork to use, not to eat before your host, he who orders the wine pays for the wine, bread plate on …